Various Matters of Mental and Physical Health

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Sunday, 19 April 2026

Fear of failure

The other day I was pondering on losing weight! 

I'm 5'2" (158cm) and 11st 5lb (72.57kg, 160lb) so about 2 stone (12.7kg, 28lb) overweight. Most of my adult life I've been dieting, I lose weight then gain, lose, gain - in a crazy cycle. As I was pondering the other day, I wondered if I'm reluctant to lose weight again because I don't keep the weight off. Fear of failure! 

Losing weight, I believe it's 90% psyche and 10% food. What if my Psyche could change and instead of fear of failure, how about seeing it as a challenge?  But what if I lose, then gain again - that's the challenge, being self disciplined enough to keep the weight off, don't think I can eat anything I want when I reach my goal (why I seem to think like that is illogical ๐Ÿ™„). 

In the past when I have been self disciplined to lose weight, I have eaten healthily and exercised consistently - result = weight lost, inches (cm) lost. The problem is - the weight and inches (cm) find me again because - I go berserk eating what I want, then exercising becomes less important in life! ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️

Answer: 

Eat healthily ALL the time, even when I reach my goal weight

Exercise regularly, even when I reach my goal weight

Throw away ALL my larger clothes and don't keep any 'just in case' because I'm setting myself up for failure - which I then fear! ๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿคจ

Less of the pondering now and more of the action because I'm not getting any younger. Only a few more years until I'm 60 ๐Ÿ˜ณ now THAT'S scary ๐Ÿ˜ฑ